Am I ready? A heart check for anyone carrying relationship pain · School of Holistic Healing

A heart check · Free · Two minutes

Am I ready to heal?

Someone you loved left a mark on you. Before you decide anything, take two honest minutes with these twelve statements. There are no wrong answers, only true ones. Nobody sees your answers but you, and your personal result is free.

This is a pastoral reflection, not a clinical assessment. Answer for where you are today, not where you wish you were. Whatever was done to you was not your fault; this is only about what you carry now.

Movement one

My own heart

There is a hurt from a relationship that I have still not put into words.

I react to people in ways that surprise me, and afterward I feel regret.

I find it hard to receive love, rest, or kindness without feeling I have to earn it.

Movement two

Where I learned love

What I saw of love growing up still shapes what I accept from people today.

Certain subjects in my family are met with silence.

I can name a hurt in my family that was passed down more than one generation.

Movement three

The patterns

The same kind of person, or the same ending, keeps arriving in my life.

I have tried to move on by myself, and the pattern keeps returning.

I am afraid of becoming the person who hurt me.

Movement four

The road forward

I am willing to be honest with God, and with myself, about what happened to me.

I can set aside a short time each week for this work, for eighteen weeks.

I believe God can write a new name over my life.

One last step

Where should I send your result?

Your personal reading, the movement where the ache is loudest, and a few letters from me about the road ahead. No spam, ever. Leave any time.

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Your road forward is New Name. An eighteen week guided journey built exactly around these four movements: the complete fillable workbook, a personal welcome video, eighteen weekly companion emails, a live monthly online gathering with me, and my book Reconciliation with Yourself included. You have already given that relationship years. Give eighteen weeks to the person who has to live the rest of them.

Begin the journey · $180 I have also sent this result to your inbox, with a letter about what the journey holds.

Your answers to the twelve statements stay on this page and are never stored or sent anywhere. Only your email address is kept, so that I can write to you. Built on The Reconciliation Journey by Pastor Daniel G. Jean Baptiste.